How to report bullying at school today

Kid-friendly steps to make safe reports, gather evidence, and get adult support from From Bullied to Brave.

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How to Report Bullying at School: Start Here

how to report bullying at school: start by telling a trusted adult, documenting dates, times and witnesses, saving messages or screenshots, and filing a formal report with your school. For step-by-step scripts and forms, see From Bullied to Brave by Jaxon Donaldson-Brickell — buy here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1456672681

This guide walks kids and parents through who to tell, how to document incidents, and how to follow school policies so complaints are taken seriously. According to U.S. research and prevention resources, about 1 in 5 students experience bullying — making clear reporting essential.

If the school response is insufficient, the book explains escalation options: contacting the district office, using anonymous reporting tools, seeking counseling, or involving law enforcement for threats or physical harm. Practical templates and scripts make the process less stressful.

What You'll Find Inside

Clear reporting steps

Simple, age-appropriate step-by-step instructions showing exactly who to tell and when to file a formal report with the school.

Ready-to-use scripts

Sample conversations and written report templates kids and parents can use to clearly describe incidents and ask for help.

Evidence checklist

A practical checklist for gathering screenshots, witness names, dates, and other evidence schools need to act.

School policy breakdown

Easy explanations of typical school anti-bullying policies, reporting timelines, and what outcomes to expect after a complaint.

Support for parents and educators

Guidance for adults on communicating with schools, documenting responses, and escalating when necessary.

Why This Guide Helps

  • Know exactly who to tell and how to start a report
  • Use calm, effective scripts so kids feel confident speaking up
  • Preserve digital evidence and document incidents accurately
  • Reduce anxiety with clear steps and predictable outcomes
  • Empower children to set boundaries and seek help
  • Understand when to escalate to district or law enforcement
  • Access resources for ongoing emotional support and safety planning

What People Are Saying

“This book gave my son the words to tell his counselor and helped us get the school to take action within a week.”

— Maya R., Parent, Seattle, WA

“As a school counselor I recommend these scripts to families—clear, practical, and kid-friendly.”

— Daniel K., School Counselor, Austin, TX

“The evidence checklist and templates made filing a formal report straightforward. We felt supported every step of the way.”

— Priya S., Parent, Edison, NJ

Frequently Asked Questions

Start with a trusted adult at school: a teacher, counselor, or the principal. If immediate harm is occurring, contact school security or local authorities.

Include dates, times, locations, what happened, names of people involved and witnesses, and any screenshots or messages. The book provides a ready-made form.

Many schools offer anonymous reporting tools, but anonymous reports can limit investigations. The guide explains when anonymity is appropriate and how to document incidents safely.

Document your communications, escalate to the district or school board, contact local education authorities, and consider legal options if threats or physical harm occurred.

Contact law enforcement for threats, physical assaults, stalking, or if you believe a crime has been committed. The book outlines thresholds for involving police.

From Bullied to Brave is written for kids and parents. Language and scripts are age-flexible; caregivers can adapt examples for younger or older children.

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Get practical, kid-tested reporting steps, scripts, and checklists to turn fear into confidence — available now at Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1456672681

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